That’s one big generalization for a fandom. There are definitely people like that among the Monchele ‘shippers’ but I refuse to accept this accusations for everyone. Because, most times, from what I see:
a) We don’t bully. We get attacked and we answer back
b) We don’t side with lea. We just simply refuse that Cory is a cheater (because we’re his fans and believe the best for him ;D)
c) We can differentiate between real people and characters, so finchel is not a factor
d) We like to believe that they will in fact stay together instead of wishing they break up.